My Overly-Superstitious Mom May Have Been Right About 2020


Courtesy of Tina Drakakis

My mother was a witch. I imply, not within the literal sense (though you may not need to ask my junior excessive buddies; that’s an unfairly tough interval to guage). But she was super-superstitious. I spent my whole life watching her toss salt over her shoulder and muttering nutso issues on a regular basis. Not the standard warnings of black cats and damaged backs; extra like ominous forewarnings of destiny misfortunes, like having infants with horns or inflicting a marriage day disaster all since you’d carelessly added oregano into your pink sauce.

When my highschool boyfriend gave me pearl earrings for Christmas she sniffed, “Pearls mean tears.” She mentioned nothing else.

Um, okay?

In equity, he was form of a jerk and her spidey sense for Wrong Boys was keenly conscious of this manner earlier than my adolescence picked up on it however her comment alone clearly seeped into my unconscious. I’ve by no means actually been a fan of that jewellery (and, for this Long Island woman, ignoring that accent was an ’80s battle for positive. Thanks, Madonna). But the reality is that boy brought about A LOT of tears so who is aware of, possibly she was proper.

But there have been others, and most got here void of any logic or rationale. You simply obeyed.

Never put your footwear on the desk. I don’t. Never have.

Never open your bathe items with scissors. Think that’s straightforward? Try it.

Don’t put on black once you’re pregnant. I by no means actually heeded this till I used to be strolling by means of NY’s San Gennaro feast within the ninth month of my first being pregnant. Now, this can be a typical avenue pageant, the place cubicles and meals vans line the avenue and also you achieve weight from the smells alone. It was summer season, and proper earlier than the beginning of my maternity go away. I used to be carrying a spectacular stable black, A-frame swing gown that I’d ordered from a (gasp!) catalog. It was good for my unforgiving girth and I might put on it even after the newborn got here. Back within the pre-Amazon day you critically took your possibilities with mail order clothes however this was a winner. It made my bloated mind satisfied I appeared like Audrey Hepburn. I purchased two: the opposite was scorching pink.

As I strolled the streets with a bunch of colleagues a really previous lady began motioning to me from her meals stand. I smiled and began making my approach in the direction of her (free sausage pattern? All in, ma’am!). As I acquired nearer I might see was positively not smiling again, however somewhat she was shaking her head. She started wagging a wrinkled, crooked finger at me and began talking in Italian. She gestured to my total physique, saved muttering issues I didn’t perceive and made the signal of the cross earlier than shooing me away in disgust.

I wore the new pink quantity for the remaining weeks of the being pregnant and by no means (ever) informed my mom. (Spoiler alert, the newborn arrived with out horns).

Crazy, proper? This odd and off-hand recommendation was naturally adopted up with Don’t gown your child in black so you may wager your candy ass my youngsters have by no means appeared like these smooth Kardashian youngsters. Good grief, so not well worth the danger.

I do know all these tales of warning have been the stuff of folklore handed down from her personal mom. Once in childhood my grandmother informed me to by no means sleep on my left aspect. You’ll crush your coronary heart, she whispered. Imagine somewhat woman waking up in a sweaty panic any time she woke in the midst of night time to seek out she’d shifted to that place. Gah!

For most of my life I took this all in and didn’t push again a lot, as a result of frankly I didn’t have the gumption (ahh, old school elder respect) or Google (ahh, ’90s) to argue.

But from time to time in maturity I did.

My mother would at all times affirm odd numbered years have been unhealthy. Whenever one thing tragic occurred she’d comment knowingly, Well, it’s an odd yr….

I’d had it. With all of the respect I might muster, I politely but adamantly refused to acquiesce. I identified that, along with getting married in an odd yr (30 years in a number of weeks *smugly sorts with emphasis*), all 4 of my youngsters have been born in odd years.

She drifted into thought for a number of moments earlier than nodding and smiling, You’re proper, she whispered. I’m positive she was taking stock of all of the infinite blessings that got here from her obedient daughter shielding her grandchildren from all that ebony clothes.

She shrugged and went on about her enterprise, detached that I’d taken down her stink eye. Nonsense averted.

Boy, oh boy. Imagine my discipline day of smugness if she have been right here right this moment having witnessed 2020.

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